“…the stories that we tell ourselves and other people become our lives.” — IN-Q
This is a conversation about the stories that live inside us, about creativity as a practice rather than a talent, and about why being witnessed and seen helps us release what we might otherwise carry alone.
Before this conversation started, IN-Q walked the entire Finding Mastery team through a poetry workshop. Each person wrote about a personal experience with risk that changed the direction of their life, then read it out loud to the room. Mike opens this episode saying he has never started a podcast feeling the way he felt coming out of that experience.
IN-Q is a spoken word artist, two-time Emmy-nominated lyricist, multi-platinum songwriter, keynote speaker, and bestselling author of Inquire Within. He has written songs with Selena Gomez, Miley Cyrus, and Aloe Blacc, and he was one of the original members of Da Poetry Lounge in Los Angeles, the open mic he calls church without religion.
IN-Q and Mike get into the three guidelines he gives people before they write, and the time he read his old breakup poems and realized every one of them applied to his new breakup.
He also describes giving himself space every morning to decide not to be a poet. Choosing it again each day keeps the work from turning into a life he inherited from a version of himself that has already faded away.
Both of them tell stories about an old chip on the shoulder, and the two trace back to a similar place. The chip became fuel. IN-Q calls it unhealthy fuel, and describes chipping away at it now, trying to turn it into a sculpture.
‘Change your story, change your life’ is how he puts it. He also tells you exactly where to start.
Enjoy the conversation.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The three guidelines he gives people before they write anything
- Why a poem does different work than a journal entry
- What changes when you read something real and authentic to one other person
- Why he re-chooses being a poet every single morning
- The downside of digging into your own life too much
“I think that one of the tragedies of modern day society is that we leave all art to the professionals. In doing that, we rob ourselves of the opportunity to express, to explore, and to alchemize the trapped energy inside of us.” — IN-Q
Resources + Links
IN-Q’s Website: in-q.com
IN-Q’s Books: Inquire Within, The Never Ending Now Poetry Journal
IN-Q’s Album: The Never Ending Now (featuring Isabella Turso)
IN-Q’s Poetry Special: IN-Q – Live at the Ace Theatre, streaming on Amazon Prime Video
IN-Q’s Poetry Workshops and Retreats: in-q.com/poetry-workshops
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